Paul cautioned us not to “grieve the Holy Spirit “.  The word he used for grieve means “getting your feelings hurt “.  For example,  we grieve the Holy Spirit by refusing to forgive someone.   Have you ever seen a person experiencing grief?   Sure you have.  It’s not a pretty sight.   So what kind of advice do you think Paul might give us about this situation?  Find out what grieves the Holy Spirit and simply dont do it “